For the woman who lost herself holding everything else together

Why We Dim Our Light for Love

A warm, honest, deeply human conversation
No blame. No shame. No finger-pointing at the past
Just truth, compassion, and loads of love.

A gentle, powerful guide back to yourself.

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WHY WE STRUGGLE

You didn't lose yourself

all at once.

It happened quietly...

in the moments you softened to keep the peace,

smiled when you wanted to speak,

and held everything together

so nothing would fall apart.

You learned to be:

The calm one
The steady one
The one who could absorb more
The one who didn't need anything

Not because you were weak.
But because belonging once felt safer than expressing your truth.

And now?
Your heart is asking for its rightful place in your life again.
Not toned down.
Not backgrounded.
Not offered only where it’s convenient.

Your return begins here.

ABOUT THE EBOOK

“Why We Dim Our Light for Love” is a warm, honest guide for women who have given more than they received, who abandoned themselves to keep relationships alive, and who are now ready to rise gently... without force, without shame, and without hard edges.

This is not a story of heartbreak as failure.
It’s a story of heartbreak as awakening.
A remembering. A homecoming.

Inside, you’ll find:

Relief (because it finally makes sense)
Words (real words) for what you went through
A soft place to land
And the permission to be yourself again

This is not about becoming a new you.
It’s about returning to the woman you were
before the dimming.

WHAT'S INSIDE

“Every time I swallowed a need, a truth, or a boundary, it was like sliding another sword silently into my own back. And here's the thing about swords: they don't hurt so much going in. They hurt when you finally decide to pull them out. And the pain is excruciating.”

We explore five reasons women lose themselves in love, and how to gently reclaim your light.

1. Emotional Responder

When caring turns into carrying

2. Playing It Safe

Keeping the peace to avoid conflict or disappointment

3. Chasing Love

Trying to "earn" love by proving your worth

4. Flight Control

Managing everything so you can feel stable

5. Loving Through Illusion

Falling in love with potential instead of reality

Each section gives you:

Insight that releases pressure

Recognition that softens the heart

Practical ways to come back to yourself

And gentle affirmations that feel true

No forcing.
No fixing.
Just remembering.

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MEET THE AUTHOR

ANNICA HARRIS

Connection Coach & Creator of The Conscious Comeback™

I support women who lost themselves in love to reconnect with their true selves. To rebuild their confidence, and return to a life that feels like them again.

I’ve lived every word of this work.

I’ve loved deeply, dimmed quietly, and rebuilt slowly.

This book isn't written from a pedestal... it's written from inside the experience.

A hand on your shoulder.

A quiet knowing.

A voice whispering, "You're not alone."

It’s a love letter to the woman you’re becoming...

and a reminder of the one you've always been.